Assumptions: relationship is broken and afraid to forgive

There are people who made too many assumptions. Assumptions that ruined a relationship. Since they assumed, they will allege the people involve. Oh yes, a questionable and doubtful assertions. Miguel Ruiz is worth noting here, when he said , “Making assumptions in our relationship is really asking for problems. Often we make the assumption that our partners know what we think and that we don’t have to say what we want. We assume they are going to do what we want, because they know us as so well. If they don’t do what we assume they should do, we feel hurt and say, ‘You should have known.’”

If that happens, both will be blaming each other. Even if one will accept his fault (though it was not his fault), the other will just be saying nonsense. The sad thing here is that, she is mad at her partner himself, and not to the act. True, she is mad to the person not of his doing (often people have this kind of attitude). It is because she sees her partner as evil as the fault is. Essentially, a person is good. Why? Because His creator is the Supreme Good. How come a person from Supreme Good be evil? Who wants to contradict this? Very logical isn’t it? The result of hating the person and not of his doing is not to forgive him. She is afraid to forgive, afraid to forgive herself because her assumptions are the cause of a breakup, a termination of their relationship.

These are some of the many effects of making assumptions: relationship is broken and being so afraid to forgive.