Thursday, January 13, 2011

A cry of assumptions

Why do people cry?

Emotions such as pain, sorrow, depression etcetera are usually the causes why a person cry. Going into the cause of these causes, there are many things that will let those emotions be felt. Some of which are death of loved ones, separation from relationship and being hurt physically, mentally and emotionally. Many times, some people will feel pain in their hearts because of the words that are coming out from other people that points onto the specific person. Words that hit and strike a person's ego, that makes him feel insecure, cast away, rejected and down. But sometimes he just simply assume these inferiority complexes that hurt himself. Assumptions is one of the truths that hurts him, and that makes him cry. In The Four Agreements said, "Making assumptions in our relationship is really asking for problems. Often we make the assumption that our partners know what we think and that we don't have to say what we want. We assume they are going to do what we want, because they know us as so well. If they don't do what we assume they should do, we feel hurt and say, 'You should have known.'"

Why are you crying?

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